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香港婚姻介紹所

Etnet Column

27/04/2016 THANK YOU!
I swear the clock ticks faster as one grows older. It is hard to believe that I have been writing the Diamond Matchmaker column for four years!

15/04/2016 Balancing Love and Career
Many women believe that they have been studying and working so hard and for so long to get.....

29/03/2016 Misreading People and Situations
Melanie and Henry had been married for 3 years. Henry is a nice guy, soft spoken, successful yet modest.....

15/03/2016 Fail Better
“Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better “- Samuel Beckett.....

02/03/2016 Expression of Love
For the Valentine’s Day just past, clients who have received overpriced flowers and fancy gifts.....

16/02/2016 Being Magnanimous
Jenny and Lisa were best friends since high school. They were in the same volley ball team and.....

02/02/2016 Content & Discontent
Henry gave Jessica, 36, a Gucci handbag for Christmas. Asked why she wasn’t happy ? ......

19/01/2016 Far From The Madding Crowd
On the way back from San Francisco to Hong Kong, I watched Far From The Madding Crowd ......

05/01/2016 Reaction Formation
Ever heard of the 90/10 Principle? It means “Life is 10% what happens to us ......

2015

22/12/2015 Not Everything In Life Is Logical !
You are healthy and intelligent, your appearance is above average ......

10/12/2015 Mother Dear
William 42 and Dora 35 had been going out for four years ......

24/11/2015 Why You Should Get Married?
A group of people in early 30’s to mid 40’s protesting in Central last week ......

10/11/2015 Emotional Eating
The boat ride in Disneyland was shut down for two years for total......

27/10/2015 Being Self Centered
Two Chinese tourists in Germany went into an expensive restaurant and......

13/10/2015 Hong Kong Lifestyle Convention
On 9th October, we held a small Media Chat with a few friends from the press and the HK Lifestyle Convention was......

30/09/2015 Clouded Perceptions
“ It is just like man’s vanity and impertinence to call an animal dumb......

15/09/2015 Ashley Madison
Ashley Madison is a Canadian company established in 2001......

01/09/2015 Being Overly Critical
Being overly critical is when a person is excessively focused on small faults......

18/08/2015 When She Earns More
With more women getting higher education and better jobs......

04/08/2015 Marriage
What is a “cultural universal” ? It is an element, trait or institution common to......

21/07/2015 “Chemistry” in Relationships
One of the greatest frustration I experience as a matchmaker is that......

07/07/2015 Making Conversations
Peter adores Eva, but the feeling is not mutual. When asked, she said......

23/06/2015 Insecurity in Relationships
“Insecurity” is the feeling of anxiety caused by a lack of self confidence......

09/06/2015 The Year 2030
Anticipation of the future motivates behavior of the present......

27/05/2015 Communication Problems
“It has become appallingly obvious that our technology has exceeded our humanity.”Albert Einstein......

12/05/2015 Gentlemen, this is for you
The Daily Mail recently published an article about lonely old men......

28/04/2015 Relationship Education
As a CSR program to address prevalent social problems in Hong Kong......

15/04/2015 Please Join Us on 18/4 at Science Park !
When I was honoured by the invitation to join the UNESCO HK Committee......

08/04/2015 Embracing Failure
A client of ours has not been dating anyone and has not answered......

24/03/2015 Digital Relationships
I was interviewed by TVB’s PEARL Report regarding Digital Relationships......

10/03/2015 Cross Border Marriages
On 5th March, Ming Pao published a half page article about an interview......

24/02/2015 Changing Times
“ The times will always be changing. Much of life and work consists of......

10/02/2015 Dangerous Assumptions
“Assumption” means conjecture, or hypothesis......

27/01/2015 New Year Resolution 2015
A “New Year Resolution” normally means a promise you make to begin......

13/01/2015 Happy Relationships !
Happy New Year ! May I wish ETNET readers all the best in 2015......

2014

30/12/2014 Concluding 2014 With Gratitude
“ To educate yourself about gratitude means to take nothing for granted......

16/12/2014 Don’t Let Politics Destroy Your Relationships !
An unanticipated tragedy of Occupy Central is the disruption of so many......

02/12/2014 The Millennials
Many books and articles celebrate Millennials (born, 1982 to 1999) as promising......

18/11/2014 Beauty Contest
On 17th Oct, I was invited by ATV to be one of the judges in the......

04/11/2014 Occupying Central
Friends from the media have been asking me many questions regarding......

21/10/2014 Cheating
When a man and a woman are in a “stable” relationship, absolute loyalty is ......

07/10/2014 Think Outside Your Box
A visiting businessman went into a small town bank and asked for......

23/09/2014 Stress Management
In Hong Kong, we tend to live our lives on the fast lane – quick paced......

09/09/2014 Chatting with Mei Ling (10)
In the final episode of ATV’s緣。來自Mei Ling, we focused on the......

26/08/2014 Chatting with Mei Ling (7,8,9)
In the next three episodes of ATV’s緣。來自Mei Ling......

12/08/2014 Chatting with Mei Ling (4,5,6)
Last time, we spoke about the first three episodes of緣。來自Mei Ling......

29/07/2014 Chatting with Mei Ling
I am presently shooting 10x episodes of new TV shows with ATV......

15/07/2014 The Choice of Life
I was interviewed by TVB’s program Bookworm(讀上癮) recently where......

02/07/2014 Dip Your High beam
Celina and John had been going steady for six months......

17/06/2014 “On Practice”
I am not a communist. But then one doesn’t have to be a communist to......

03/06/2014 “Cougar”Women
A “cougar”, also known as a mountain lion, is a large cat of the family......

20/05/2014 MeilingCircle.com (小緣圈)
In the past few years, I was fortunate enough to participate in numerous TV......

06/05/2014 Different Perspectives
Zhuangzi’s Mao Qiang and Li Ji were world class beauties......

22/04/2014 Extramarital Dating Sites
What is the reason for the increase in extra-marital dating sites......

08/04/2014 Getting To Know Me
“Getting to Know You” was the show tune of Rodgers and......

25/03/2014 An Unlearned Woman Is A Virtuous Woman
I grew up in a family full of contradictions in the cusp of generation......

11/03/2014 Quarrelling
Some say arguments between partners are inevitable, even healthy......

25/02/2014 Fear of Love
Many people come to us looking for love, but as soon as......

11/02/2014 Love
Hong Kong is a place full of contradictions. Nowhere is it......

28/01/2014 New Year Resolution
As we move away from the year of the Snake into the Year......

14/01/2014 Promiscuity
Promiscuity, is the practice of having casual sex frequently with......

2013

31/12/2013 Love At First Sight
Some love gurus openly proclaim that when one’s gaze is fixated......

17/12/2013 This “Age” Thing
Men generally believe that women of 36 years and older have a......

03/12/2013 The Wrong Men
Women are usually smarter than men in many other respects......

18/11/2013 Two Years !
A 45 year old lady sat crying in my office......

05/11/2013 Your Husband Has An Affair !!
I cannot think of anything more devastating for a woman than......

22/10/2013 Don’t Let Your Baby Ruin Your Marriage
Having a baby is such a delightful blessing the entire family is......

08/10/2013 Painful Memories
Judy’s husband divorced her to marry her best friend......

17/09/2013 Seducing A Friend’s Wife
Recent tabloids are all sizzling with hot gossips......

03/09/2013 High Divorce Rate in Hong Kongs
The first Chinese couple to have officially filed for divorce in modern China......

20/08/2013 Infidelity (2):Serious Consequences
Last time we talked about using the power of the mind as an effective......

06/08/2013 Infidelity (1):The Power of Temptation
I have just finished shooting nine episodes of 《Unfaithful》with Now TV where I appeared......

16/07/2013 The Man Manual (2)s
Some women are comfortable in the company of men, some are not......

09/07/2013 The Man Manual (1)
My new book《The MAN MANUAL》will be launched 17-23 July 2013 at the Book Fair......

02/07/2013 Working Hard For Love
A lady acquaintance asked me the other day what her chances are in finding......

18/06/2013 Marrying For Money
A beautiful woman advertised online that she was looking for a multi billionaire husband......

04/06/2013 The High & Mighty
Tina was once a stunning beauty married to a seriously wealthy man......

21/05/2013 Please Don’t Give Up !
People who left broken relationships are mostly hurt, angry and disappointed......

07/05/2013 One Mistake
Four soldiers were sent to bomb the Armageddon bridge, the first three did their jobs properly......

23/04/2013 Breaking Up
When a dating or cohabiting relationship works out, the couple will normally head for marriage......

09/04/2013 Do Not Talk About Your Age
Hong Kong men and women are super age-sensitive. We are afraid of ageing......

19/03/2013 Be interested to be interesting
I walked into the office the other day and saw a lady crying. One of our Consultants had just turned her down......

05/03/2013 Are You Arrogant?
When asked if they are arrogant, 9 out of 10 clients would say they are not. The truth is......

19/02/2013 Saying it in Numbers
A new client claimed to have read all my books, attended all my talks and has been a faithful follower of......

05/02/2013 Kung Hei Fat Choy !
"Fat Choy"today means financial prosperity, this Lunar New Year greeting expresses well wishes for......

22/01/2013 Secret of Success
On 15/Jan/2013, we were for the second time, recognized by Hong Kong Business as one of the......

08/01/2013 New Year’s Resolutions
A person who makes resolutions is saying 2 things about himself: (1) He is smart and conscientious enough to......

2012

25/12/2012 Year End Assessment
People habitually make “New Year Resolutions” at the beginning of each year when a self assessment at the end of each......

11/12/2012 The Ability To Listen
The word "pulma" means "trouble" in Finnish, but the same word means "wedding" in Estonian......

27/11/2012 The Ultra Conservative
We talked about the “Ultra Liberal” last time. This would be the exact opposite......

13/11/2012 Sexual Attitude (1)
Catherine II was a promiscuous nymphomaniac who slept with almost every nobleman......

30/10/2012 My Own Story (2)
Initially, did my husband and I have anything in common at all ? Not much. In all honesty......

16/10/2012 My Own Story (1)
Many prospective clients continue to come to us with very definite ideas in their heads......

02/10/2012 Not What It Seems
Mary initiated the break up with Jacque because her colleague saw him kissing another woman on the street......

18/09/2012 Being Pertinacious
The best description of “Pertinacious” was perhaps given by T.S. Eliot, who said someone pertinacious of opinion is......

04/09/2012 What To Talk About On A Date? (2)
Dreams come from broadening your horizon and rubbing elbows with different people, and the best form of “rubbing” would be communication......

21/08/2012 What To Talk About On A Date ? (1)
Some people are natural orators, gifted public speakers who command presence, own the stage, and mesmerize the audience......

07/08/2012 Being Judgmental
We have clients who are divorced. When asked to name one catalyst which triggered the beginning of the end......

24/07/2012 Dating Etiquette (2)
Religion is something private and personal, please keep it that way. You have only met this person five minutes......

10/07/2012 Dating Etiquette (1)
“Etiquette” basically means the code of behavior applicable to a given set of circumstances.....

26/06/2012 Long Distance Relationship
Once upon a time, we Chinese were poor. "Overseas Matching" meant "mail order brides" ......

12/06/2012 The List of Criteria
In Brides Wannabe’s, I did not have anything to do with the selection of women; my job was just to find the men......

05/06/2012 Bamboo Door To Bamboo Door
A disgruntled lady client from Shanghai barged into my office, “Define a good male candidate!” Whereupon I replied:......

29/05/2012 Why are there so many women in Hong Kong without husbands? (Part 2)
Once upon a time, women with little or no means of making a living would be more susceptible to “obeying” husbands who were the family’s sole bread winners......

22/05/2012 Why are there so many women in Hong Kong without husbands? ( Part 1)
According to the leading environmental scientist Dana Meadows’ calculations in her “Global Village” report, for every 100 people on earth......

15/05/2012 Combating Loneliness
What is loneliness? It is that dreadful feeling of emptiness which takes away the color + taste from a person's life......

08/05/2012 Following One’s Dream…?
CK has been teaching at the same university since many years, a stable man with a stable job......

02/05/2012 These are my criteria; can you find me a husband?
No, we cannot find you “a husband”; in fact nobody can unless......